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What should you do when you see your boyfriend checking out another girl while you are there? One of the most stupidest and awfullest thing to do to your beloved one is check out another person in front of them. Guys, it does hurt, us girls a lot when you look at another girl.. Everyone knows that girls can be insecure at sometimes since it is completely normal. No one is perfect, we are all human beings who just want to be loved.
I am currently in a committed relationship for about a year and a half and I have seen my boyfriend check out other girls when I am right there with him. It bothered me a lot, but I never said anything to him. I remember him checking out his friend's girlfriend when she was stretching and such. He was looking at her butt.. I was sitting right next to him and he checked her out. In my head, I thought "why am I with such a disrespectful and disgusting man." I hate it when guys say "Sorry, we cannot read your mind." But come on, how would you feel if you saw your girlfriend checking out a guy? Try to be in our shoes at least. It is not rocket science. However, I let it slide because I didn't want him to think that I felt insecure. Another time, I was at the food court with my boyfriend and he was deeply starring at these Japanese girls who are international students. They were wearing short skirts and I remember him mentioning that he has a Japanese girl fetish. He always wanted a Japanese girlfriend and when I thought of that I felt like shit. And Yep, I was right next to him .. but I didn't say anything. I tried my best to not show that I cared. But next time when I see him starring at another girl... all hell will break loose.
So, here are some tips of what to do when your boyfriend is looking at another girl. What to do.. I mean make him feel bad. Because really it is okay to get mad.. I'm sure he wouldn't like it if you were checking out a guy in front of him. These tactics I came up with... I will use them when the time comes. Mwahha. lol
1. Ask him what he is looking at and why. If he says nothing or lie straight to your face.. tell him what you think he was looking at.
2. If he is starring at someone's breasts or butt.. tell him "So, you like girls with big breasts or fakes breasts, a butt like that" etcc something similar to that line. Then after saying that, tell him... "if you do, why are you with me?" "Am I not good enough for you?"
3. Tell him, "You seem to be starring at her pretty long.. do you want to talk to her?" "If so, please go right ahead I'm not stopping you." He will feel guilt at the moment. "She can be your girlfriend if you want..."
4. If he keeps his focus on the girl that he is checking out.. just walk away and see if he noticed that you went somewhere else or cared enough to went after you.
5. Check out other guys and be sure to make it obvious. Hey if he can check out other girls, why can't you? When you guys are sitting down and eating.. look around and if there are good looking guys look at them frequently.....You not giving him attention will make him mad. Use your cellphone often... make it seem like you are getting a call from your guy friend. And by the end of the day, if he confronts you about your behavior.. tell him that's how you felt like when he was checking out other girls.
